Was it “good ” for me?
Was it “good” for her?
Am I “good” lover? I wish it was more passionate, exciting, spontaneous, etc..
Maybe we should ask different questions. Instead of assessing your sex life, try asking:
How can I be more present during lovemaking? (even just a little bit more)
How can I give my full self and heart?
How can help my partner fully open?
How can I relax into the moment without expectation?
Once we ask these questions, the first ones usually take care of themselves.
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